She cheated on me before we got married and she blamed me for that too. She did show a bit of remorse and i forgave her but the last year before she left she would go see friends and stay out till 1am sometimes and would message other guys and when i got upset or confronted her she would always say she did nothing wrong.
How do YOU see it? Did you force her to cheat?
If she really believes that she's done nothing wrong, then she has no high standards or principles by which she conducts herself. IMHO, she gives you this sort of answer to avoid responsibility and to leave you feeling powerless. The only person you can control is Ace. It's time to get your power back.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
