Originally Posted by CWarrior
To tie Joe's and my points back to Sandi's "Plan of Action"--

Originally Posted by Sandi
I. Accept what you cannot control or change.
G. Accept the fact that you are the only person you can control.

II. Regain mental stability and clarity.
F. Do not be concerned about what she thinks of you or your decisions/actions during this period. Whenever you catch yourself worrying what she thinks of your actions or reactions, remember your goal is to get your mind and emotions to a place of stability and clarity. As long as you are focused on what she thinks or feels, you aren’t focused on your goal.

III. Proactive steps
F. GAL!




Thanks for a bit of clarity, i can see that i am worrying about info getting to my WW rather than if it gets to her then so be it,
let me worry about me and my D, ignore her all together until she contacts me! i am starting to understand a lot of the concept of being dark, just need to keep reading it and applying all of it,
i am having good days without thinking about the sitch, but there are still a few bad days and i know i need to keep working on me

thanks for the help