I think what is upsetting me is that he and ow are telling all and sundry that I am abusive and controlling and her X is abusive and controlling (they have a script. sickening) and I KNOW I'm not.

If you want to leave your spouse for another, just say so. Don't blame them. Don't lie for years and act like you are the victim.

Maybe I'm getting to the anger stage - about dang time! I'm sick of sad. lol

ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19

8/17-BD
IHS: 1/17-2/19
D FILED (ME): 7/19
D FINAL: 10/20
M23 T25
OW CONFIRMED: 01/21

Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.