Mine famously told me I "walked too heavy". And even worse, I'd "taught our daughter to walk too heavy".
Now first of all, I checked with several people, and there's nothing strange with my gait. Second, if I DID walk too heavy, and my daughter did too, wouldn't you think it's genetic versus me teaching her????
But I take it as a tribute to the fact that I was a pretty good wife if he had to reach that far to find something to complain about.
This process is great for self examination and we all come out better. It's good for us to work on ourselves. But its really seldom about the LBS spouse but about the cheater's flaws.
