To tie Joe's and my points back to Sandi's "Plan of Action"--
Originally Posted by Sandi
I. Accept what you cannot control or change. G. Accept the fact that you are the only person you can control.
II. Regain mental stability and clarity. F. Do not be concerned about what she thinks of you or your decisions/actions during this period. Whenever you catch yourself worrying what she thinks of your actions or reactions, remember your goal is to get your mind and emotions to a place of stability and clarity. As long as you are focused on what she thinks or feels, you aren’t focused on your goal.
