It’s understandable to have stirred up emotions over OW1’s death, and to be thinking about things. Events like these affect people - always. You have the benefit and blessing to realize this. What effect will you foster within you?
Boundaries are implemented to protect one’s self. They are rock solid when warranted; as in H when you do ____, I’ll leave the room. H’s current behaviour and communication does not warrant a communication black out. And you are well healed to not need it. Therefore as long as H doesn’t behave like an @ss, no need to treat him like one - regarding this issue.
Don’t jump ahead, continue as you have been. H may or may not waken how ever briefly or long that may be. Be patient and keep moving forward, time will reveal all things.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
