YES! Let her notice and ask. Any contact initiated by you could seem as pursuit.

If/when she asks - a simple - I put it in the closet. And then let her know 2 days/times you will be available.

W: Where's my stuff?/What did you do with my things?/WTF?? My stuff!!!???

H: I packed it up. I am free Monday between 11-12 or Tuesday between 4-6.

or even better...

H: I packed it up. I can leave it on the porch, let me know if you would like to come by on Monday or Tuesday.

Remember - you are busy!! GALing and kids and your new exciting life.

You don't put anything in her court. You aren't available last minute, or at her leisure. And you do NOT need or want an excuse to see her. You are moving forward in a positive direction. : )


Last edited by 97Hope; 01/25/21 12:55 AM.

ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19

8/17-BD
IHS: 1/17-2/19
D FILED (ME): 7/19
D FINAL: 10/20
M23 T25
OW CONFIRMED: 01/21

Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.