Try to see the upside of losing hope: you get to put that energy into fun and personal growth rather than pursuing a cheater who has left you in reality, though you are still married.

If you're still here in 3 months I bet you don't want her back.

Now go work on new relationship skills and heal from this mess.

Good luck,


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.