Need guidance/help

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Still continuing to GAL and move forward. Gym and exercise are still going good.

Good! GAL helps move toward detachment. Keep it up!

I’m nervous with when it will be the big move and pack up the house.

This is quite normal. I dreaded it too. I had a cry in the car, called a friend (find someone for support) and stayed busy making this place my own. You will be ok.

STBXW still sends the occasional TM about S3 and/or legal matters sometimes it feels like she is keeping tabs, TM like “Did you pack S3 sports gear, because it starts this weekend.”
I replied with “yes”.

Great reply!

It’s frustrating because any other person/parent would’ve thought to check S3’s clothing and not needed to contact me out of the blue.

There is a million reasons why she does this - control, keeping tabs, temp checking - better not to try and understand it, just keep your response short and brief and only answer questions.

Life is me continuing to try to be indifferent and moving forward with the intention of making myself a better man.

This is the goal. To be a better man. The less you focus on where STBXW is in her journey, the better off you will be, no matter what happens in future.

Detach. Rinse. Repeat.

Detachment is a process and something I'm not great at myself. Focusing on S3 and yourself is great!