oh i do wish i had found DB sooner - like 12 to 15 months ago!
if i had been looking i would have been wiser to what was happening and could have altered what i was doing towards my WAW, i pursued while she was distancing without me knowing that i was adding to her distance!
whether it would have stopped her PA i do not know, but i would have hopefully lessened the pain for me and my daughter! although i have read on here that we need to go through the pain to wake us up from the comfortable existence we have gotten into! to help us be who we really are!
i know hindsight is a wonderful tool? but i think that the help on these boards is as close to hindsight as any of us can get.
