My husband is a lunatic!

[Ready2Change]

Any thoughts from you pros?

I don't believe I am a pro, but I will give you my 2 cents.

I'm just trying to read where he is on this nightmarish journey

I tell poster that they are using the wrong measuring stick when they are trying to determine where they are in the journey based on the behavior of their spouse.

The true measuring stick is how the poster is behaving. How they are interacting. How they are changing their behavior for the better.


Those that have been successful learn new ways of interaction. Until the spouse expresses true remorse, I would be very cautious as you move forward. Enjoy the positive interactions. Setting and enforcing boundaries is very important. Do your research and learn this important skill.