Thanks guys, i have read most of the links on the newcomers thread . The one sandi wrote about WW really hit home for me and i could see alot of my wife in what she was saying.

I havent read DR yet, not sure if it is available in my country but will keep looking. I agree Hope that it wouldnt be in gods will and it is her choice to keep doing these things. I was never able to trust her fully after the first time and i dont think i ever should again.

All my family and friends have been telling me that its for the best and i should move on. I dont even recognise who she is anymore. Will go no contact, i have failed quite a few times. Especially a few days ago when i found out about her and my 'friend' i lost it a bit and messaged both of them but they are denying it still. I think i finally lost hope of reconciliation when all this happened.


Me 32, W 24
T 6, M 3
No kids
BD: Aug 2020
OM: Jan 2021
Wife to file soon