I get that OB. I am sorry for you sitch! Things will get easier.
Not sure I hate OM either, never met him. But I know I don’t like him and what he stands for and then D3 asked about it.
Hang in ther OB and thanks for posting!
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021