For whatever reason he decided this wasn’t working, he decided after 6 dates it wasn’t working and then you kind of went psycho on him. Dating is to decide if a situation works for someone and it didn’t work for him. Dating a married woman who he could sense was still hooked on her ex . And said “not for me”
After 6 dates, you should be “ok, this kind of hurts but his choice” and not obsess and just simply walk away with grace.
Until you work on yourself, you will like someone again, they may not be feeling it, and you will repeat the cycle instead of walking away from it .
But it’s like beating a dead horse to death. You will frame what you are doing in the light that suits you best.
NOPE... done with that...
I saw the mistakes I made with him. I was certainly rusty on my dating skills for sure. I missed KEY things he brought up.... He knew I was NOT D. He started talking discussing who all I was dating... was I a "player" on the 3rd date... do you really discuss exclusivity on 3rd date??? I am new to dating again and I thought that was too soon. I just said I was not a player... not my MO but I sort of blew it off cause it was just a third date.
NO. I will not get sucked in so easily again.
I've got a guy who I have a third date with this weekend and he is chasing hard... and I'm like slow down space cowboy. I'm still working on D and I have no idea what I'm doing. AND, I'm crystal clear with him and all of that. But, I think after this weekend I need to take a break from him. Its too much.
