As a woman who has done her work, it’s true a train wreck and would make a healthy partner, I speak from DOn’s side too. And it is unfortunately for us who have done our work, aren’t self Admitted train wrecks who encounter these people in OLD. I am ready for a healthy relationship and the make version of you is what I unknowingly end up with sometimes and quite honestly it stinks .
KK you have a complete cognitive dissonance. You’ll admit you are a train wreck, have issues, but do nothing to help Yourself. You think just because you admit it, you are doing something about it. Then you talk about how much you love yourself, yet you treat yourself pretty poorly.
I do know my words fall on deaf ears. You’ll continue to date to self soothe and ignore your problems. You’ll recognize you are not in a healthy place, yet do nothing about it . You’ll continue to “accidentally” send texts, or like someone or send a bill showing where you are going or whatever these “accidental” cries for attention are.
I hope one day you decide to actually do something healthy about what has happened and where you are going on life
I hear you.
I'm sorry to hear about the men you are dating. I'm not disguising who I am OR what I'm going through. I would NEVER want to mislead anyone. I truly got my feelings hurt by pilot and I would never want to inflict that on someone else. I value honesty above all else and always give it first since I expect it of others.
Sure, I've run into men who are married who state their wifes are fine with side dishes and those who's wifes don't know. I'm not everyone's cup of tea or vice versa but I don't hide behind anything or misrepresent myself. Every guy that goes out with me knows my starting point.
