Wow Mumin, you got married whist she was in EA, that blows my mind. That's not me judging you, I understand how real things can feel, sorry you had to go through that.
Markw, just to add to Steve85 and Mumin, my STBXW and I bought two houses, a car and renovated a kitchen together right before she moved out.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"