Heaven forbid a yes/no answer. Let your yes be your yes! (Should I respond with that? I'm tempted!) Feels like a should opens up more discussion later. Trying to avoid that on my end.
Sounds like control Hope. Just ignore.
Originally Posted by 97Hope
His mailbox is on the way to the school. I will drive right by it, and S19 is out of town, and I don't really want to give my address. (I think it's a control thing for me).
Hmmmmmmm. A theme?
Originally Posted by 97Hope
Looking for a plan going forward that will help me grow and continue to detach and that will be the best for my entire family (within reason!) but you guys have been doing this for a lot longer.
So this is where it gets a little confusing. Just the other day you told him you loved him baby but not his hat (lol Your words). Do you see why he could be confused and think your buddies?
Originally Posted by 97Hope
Going forward, I think it would be best for me to plan through my kids, and leave X completely out of it. If he wants to see the grands, he can work it out with them. So I told S27 that and he agreed. I can't have this convo with X because it's pointless and will lead to a long drawn-out 'thing'.
