Partner says loves me as brother and moves out

[LH19]

Ok 1st lucky for you I speak Walkawayese and I will translate what she is really saying and also comment on some things you posted. This is not to be mean this is what you are up against.

On Saturday I helped her move out to her new apartment.

Bad move. Never help some leave you. Pack their $hit to get it out of your house but leave it at that. Displaying low value.

It was more or less an ok day, not too emotional but sad of course.

I am hoping you didn't cry in front her. Learning to control your emotions should be on your list of things to work on.

We had dinner in the evening and talked a bit about open relationships and seeing what we still have.

Translation: So this is the long version of "I love you but I am not in love with you". You love to remind her that this is how she feels.

We both want to keep our connection and said that we try that first before we trigger a nuclear option and don't see each other at all.

Translation: Let's stay friends until I find someone better. Then you will never here from me again.

I also read on another site that if you want your ex back you got to have opportunities to show them that you are changing and becoming a better man.

What changes? You still seem very desperate and needy.

also sent me a long message after that evening which was nice and sad at the same time.

Translation: Thanks for helping me move and buy me dinner. Now off to join some dating websites.

"Thank you so so much for today again!! It meant a lot to me that you helped me pack and move everything.

Translation: I say jump and he says how high.

I am sorry about the distance or if I said something that hurt you.

Translation: Dude give me some fuching space to breathe

I also felt that I had to super rush in the end.. so it was not my best goodbye.

Translation: I was afraid you would beg, plead and cry again so I had to get out of there

But I am really happy we took the chance to talk and that we both want to keep this connection for now.

Translation: If you are ok with it for now you can help me with things and buy me dinner when I don't have a date.

I am very happy about that because I have a lot of love for you.

Translation: Just not the kind of love a woman feels for a man. More like brother and sister.

I was just very reserved because I don’t want to create false expectations.

Translation: Don't be surprised that when I find someone new you never hear from me again.

Not sure but this feels like a step in a good direction.

WTF????? Yeah if you want to just be friends.

We have been sending messages and voice messages a few times since then and I'll see her at yoga class today.

So she moves out because she feels trapped and needs space and now you are going to go to yoga with her. Dude you are friend zoning yourself.

Just got the Divorce Remedy so reading that as well.

Good! Read how pursuit is the number one enemy of LBS.

I feel like I want to give this 6 months and see where it ends.

Uuuum. I can tell you where it is going to end.

Then I can always pull the trigger and move on to a new life.

Pull the trigger on what? You have zero control here.