Yes, I was pretty angry - but it's more of the same. He stopped paying everything right after our court date with the claim that "the divorce is final". Even though we had temporary orders and the judge wrote in his ruling that we were to remain under them until final decree was signed.
His attorney refused to sign off on final decree, so mine had to send it to judge without his signature and wait for another ruling. (We went to court on July 21 - we received the rendition on September 29 - sent the final decree to his attorney and he's just now saying he won't sign off on it. it's such a long process here. I think his atty is running the tab up knowing he has money. I negotiated a flat rate for mine.
I've let my attorney know, the problem is that I will have to wait for court date and nothing ever really happens when he violates the temp orders. He owes me over a month's salary (for me) - which is about 1/3 of his monthly - he's just entitled and selfish - nothing new.
Just decided to post here instead of sending it. I don't have any direct contact with him anymore aside from the last text exchange and even that left a bad taste in my mouth.
Now I'm rambling a little. Time to let this go and let my L handle it. Thanks for the advice!!
Looking forward to this D being completely final.
Hope you are well!
ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19
8/17-BD IHS: 1/17-2/19 D FILED (ME): 7/19 D FINAL: 10/20 M23 T25 OW CONFIRMED: 01/21
Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.