Well, I wanted to give an update of my wonderful transition to become a working mom, but unfortunately I have to update about ExH.
As usual, I dropped off the boys with ExH for about 5 hours on Sunday for his time with the kids. If you guys recall, last time it resulted in me going up to his apartment and knocking to realize that he had fallen asleep at my pick up time and did not answer my calls. I told S12 that I'd send a phone with him next time, but this time S12 was out with friends, so it was only S10 and S8.
ExH sent them home on time, but S10 told me, "Dad fell asleep again, I tried to wake him up but he wouldn't wake up. I said it was time for our reservation and he told me no it's not time yet. I was so hungry so I cried. But around 6:50 he suddenly woke up and say oh it's time to go"
Of course upon hearing this I was furious. S10 said he didn't tell me immediately (he mentioned this after I asked him directly whether dad had fallen asleep again) because he didn't want me to be angry at dad. Well, in the end the kids were fed and everything was okay. But I can imagine S10 feeling distraught and worried when he couldn't wake up his dad.
Here's my question - Should I even mention this to ExH? My guess is like the last time, he will say some BS again to justify his behavior. I was so mad that I wanted to just call him up and ask him if he had drank too much. "Did you know that our son cried because he couldn't wake you up??"
But on second thought I don't know what it would accomplish.
I told S10 that next time I will send you guys to dad's only when one of you has a phone just in case you need to call me.
I'm really thankful that my kids are not babies anymore, or else I would NOT be fine with having this incompetent father watch over my babies.
