Thanks for all the support. She has done some potentially very hurtful things the past six weeks since thanksgiving that I was trying to shield them from. Oddly it has not bothered me as I thought it would. What bothered me was how it might affect them. S21 knows the full details as I know he was emotionally strong enough to handle it and he took it like a champ. I gave a very less detailed version to S19. I still need to look out for him as he may hear about this from others (I hope not).
I slept well last night. My next goal is to put a little weight back on. I have lost 25lbs over the past 15 months. A lot of this is likely do to my GAL workouts and running but others are concerned I'm too thin.
I haven't shared what I discovered. Some was done to snooping others was just to her not knowing that her Venmo friends are visible to her other friends. She has a secret boyfriend or FWB. Lets put the emphasis on the word boy. If this gets out it would ruin her reputation in our community while dragging the rest of us through the mud as well. I'll keep this secret for the boys and my benefit for now. But not sure I will in the future if it continues.
I would have bet my life savings she would never do something this morally wrong. Glad I didn't.
Taz
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M59 (53@BD) XW56 (50@BD) S26 (20@BD) S24 (19@BD) Married 25 (22@BD) Together 28 BD 9/29/19 (moved out unannounced while I was on fishing trip) W filed 10/19/20 (Informed me via text) D final 11/10/22