Little Gerda Goes Forward with Courage and Safety

[97Hope]

I am in a weird state since seeing H's latest motion. Did I mention part of it was him moving back in, by moving to the rental unit below (without paying rent of course). He'd rather propose that insane solution that would drive us into foreclosure than get 50K now and another 50K in a year and the whole thing in 2-3 years. MLCers are so weird. I feel like I am at a crossroads of having to see him truly as he is in order to be able to do what I have to do for my kids. I get surprised every time by how... ungentlemanly... he is. He's truly such a blackguard. He would have had such disdain for a man like that before, but maybe that was an all an act because it mirrored my values.

This is such a difficult part of all of this. I know you are a vet here, so hoping this isn't presumptuous of me, but I relied on my atty for everything and friends who hated what he was doing. That way I could keep my emotion out of it.

It's hard, but protect your future at all costs.

I always reckoned that I had to protect myself and not allow the disordered person to guide my ship. I would keep the other crazy decisions they had made that hurt themselves and the family in the forefront of every decision I had to make.

Sorry you are going through this, but love reading about your progress!