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Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2) Mar252 #2912890 01/17/21 04:49 PM
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Traveler Member T Joined: Jun 2019 Posts: 4,627 Likes: 71	Originally Posted by Mar252 It was all total BS. She and I never discussed the specifics of my flight. She has no idea what time I will be arriving or to which airport. Politeness? People often say "I can't make it" when they mean "I don't want to go". I was surprised you expected her to offer a ride, but glad you were already making plans to get home on your own. Originally Posted by Mar252 I just kept shaking my head and didn't know what to say to her. "Got to go, bye!" is good, after a couple of minutes. Be busy GAL'ing. Let her miss you. Originally Posted by Mar252 I expressed Covid concerns and she told me she wasn't worried as she has already tested positive and will be receiving the vaccine this week Seems reasonable. Originally Posted by Mar252 This is the kicker, she mentioned that the accommodations were only $700. If my memory serves me correctly, when she first talked about going $695 was for a double occupancy and $850 for single. If I am not mistaken, she booked a double occupancy before we were separated which means she is going with OW and planned to do so prior to BD. Ouch! If true and she didn't change her boarding preference, that would be a punch to the gut. Originally Posted by Mar252 Based on that phone call sounds like she is looking to act totally normal and be friendly while we are doing our in-house separation. This is where you have power--determining and setting your boundaries. Are you okay being BFFs, FWBs, or would you prefer to be just cordial as with a cashier during the in-house separation?

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How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/10/21 02:43 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/10/21 04:11 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/10/21 12:45 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/10/21 06:03 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Yail	01/10/21 05:15 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/11/21 04:47 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/11/21 05:35 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Joe2017	01/11/21 06:13 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/12/21 07:07 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Joe2017	01/13/21 11:55 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/15/21 12:39 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Traveler	01/15/21 12:59 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/15/21 01:06 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/15/21 01:16 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/15/21 01:29 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/15/21 01:31 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/15/21 01:39 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/15/21 03:16 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/15/21 03:38 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/15/21 11:13 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/15/21 11:47 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/16/21 04:10 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Joe2017	01/17/21 07:17 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/16/21 04:57 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/16/21 02:54 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/16/21 03:27 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/17/21 03:26 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/17/21 04:00 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Traveler	01/17/21 04:49 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	CanBird	01/17/21 06:11 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Yail	01/17/21 07:23 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/21/21 11:32 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/22/21 12:24 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/22/21 06:56 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/22/21 07:05 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/24/21 04:32 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	Mar252	01/25/21 05:46 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	97Hope	01/25/21 11:30 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? (2)	may22	02/01/21 06:48 PM

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