Just got a call from the W for the first time in over a week. She called to tell me that she would not be able to pick me up from the airport when I arrive on Friday. She asked me to make other arrangements. I just said ok. Gave me an excuse revolving around work. It was all total BS. She and I never discussed the specifics of my flight. She has no idea what time I will be arriving or to which airport. We never agreed that she would be coming to get me in the first place. I believe, she just wanted to make sure I wasn't expecting her to do so.
She then proceeded to have a totaling normal conversation with me about work, asked about my parents & sister, she talked about the house. We were on the phone for almost an hour and it was primarily a one sided conversation. I answered all of her questions, validated and just listened. She was acting as if everything was totally normal between us. I just kept shaking my head and didn't know what to say to her.
She also mentioned she was definitely going away for the weekend in April. This is a trip she had discussed with me a couple of weeks prior to our separation. I expressed Covid concerns and she told me she wasn't worried as she has already tested positive and will be receiving the vaccine this week (she is a health care worker). This is the kicker, she mentioned that the accommodations were only $700. If my memory serves me correctly, when she first talked about going $695 was for a double occupancy and $850 for single. If I am not mistaken, she booked a double occupancy before we were separated which means she is going with OW and planned to do so prior to BD.
This is absolutely effing crazy. Based on that phone call sounds like she is looking to act totally normal and be friendly while we are doing our in-house separation. I am going to have to read Sandi's rules 100 times a day to remind me to act appropriately. She fired me as her wife and I feel she is totally moving on as if the last 22 years didn't exist.
To all the LBS out there, how long before you filed for divorce?
