Originally Posted by scout12
Hey OB, I have a hunch that we might live in the same city.

It’s funny seeing things I wrote a while ago pulled up again. I’ve hashed and rehashed my X and my marriage to death because it was necessary at the time, but the words have served their purpose and I no longer feel the desperate urge to reflect and make sense of it all. It happened. It’s over. The wound has healed cleanly because I leaned into the pain until it didn’t hurt anymore.


This is where I need to get to. Logically I know I will, but doesn't make the path any less difficult.

I think you live a bit further north than I do from what I gather.


Me: 41 W:42
T: 14 M: 11
S: 6

"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"