If your looking for interesting podcasts listen to Peter Crone on YouTube.
I adopted one of his quotes: What happened happened and it couldn’t happen any other way because it didn’t. If you can really get it and understand it and accept it, it’s a game changer.
Pretty sure the majority were destined for this path on their wedding day. Every LBS did the best they could with the tools they had. The frustrating part is watching people who don’t learn from their mistakes and keep doing the same thing over and over.
I’m sure you’re on the right path. I was very impressed with your exchange with your ex. You’re going to be fine.