There is only so much advice you can read before you start taking it. Thank you guys. I had to stand up to this tonight and look it in the eyes. Last night my wife invited me over for dinner and then we slept in the bed together with my daughter I stayed overnight. She was telling our baby how nice it is to be together, how happy she was about it and going to trips and etc as a family.
Today she posts on social media a pic of her in a towel from the shower with cleavage and it says “officially accepting applications for hiking and travel buddies”
I called her up at work as said tf is that? You are having me stay the night, telling our kids that you want to be a family and then posting up stuff like that to get attention from men? Wtf... you agreed it’s me you and the kids and nobody else why would you post that. I got zero issue with you being with the girls, family, friends that are chicks and good people but that post was inappropriate. She said “I don’t want to be in a relationahip right now, your acting like we are married and you want to tell me what I can and can’t do, we still have a lot to work out before we get back together and I am not ready for that”
I told her today okay: no problem. I am fine with living apart it’s kind of fun dating again, I’m okay with spending time with you it’s been really nice to have quality time with you and the kids. But your getting our hopes up and the kids and our family is so happy, but you want to be single. I can’t do that. I’m sorry. If you want to do that I would like to continue the divorce. Or you need to respect our relationship and be invested in it. We cannot be married while you act as if you are single. Figure it out but I won’t tolerate that ever again. I will support you if you want to get divorced I’m okay with it. But I don’t want to spend time with you anymore Because I don’t want me and the kids getting hurt all over again unless your committed to working on each other and our M.
I am scared she will go the way I don’t want (single) but at this point I am losing nothing because I do not have her and I am sick and tired of being jerked around like a dumbass. I embraced the fear when I was in Iraq getting shot at and got the job done, I need to soldier up, buckle down and stand up for what I want. That’s what I’m doing. I will update if there is any update. At this point I expect to be D’d in a couple months and that’s okay.
Last edited by Steve_; 01/16/2104:26 AM.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
