My W has told everyone (her family & friends) that I left to come help care for my father (my father is severely ill and requires 24hr care). Since I am returning home next week, I know people will be asking how he is and how am I doing. There are certain people that I will not feel comfortable lying to, i.e, our god daughter, her brother, her BFF. How should I handle this situation? Should I just pretend that I did come to care for my father or should I tell them the truth. That I left because we are separated and more than likely getting divorced.
Of course, they are then going to ask why? Do I tell them that she is cheating with a co-worker?
My W would blow a gasket if I told any of these people that she is having an affair.
