My husband is a lunatic!

[Ready2Change]

I honestly have no idea what to do right now...husband snapped in May of 2020..... How can I make it through this, my friends? What can I do?

Hi there,

Sorry to read about your situation (Sitch). You have found a good place for support with people that have experience similar.

First, you make it through this one day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time if needed. The more you stay in the present ,the better. Do you best to let go of thoughts from the past and fear of the future.

One thing most of us here agree on is that we can't control other people, only ourselves. We can control how we behave, interact and respond.

When I was going through my sitch, I focus my energy on reading. Working on personal growth. My number one job was being Dad.

Listening and validating his beliefs is one of the best tools you have. You will have to fight every urge in your body to argue with him.

Things that work are counter-intuitive. When in doubt, do nothing and come here for ideas.


I wish you well during this most difficult time.

HUGS