Little Gerda Goes Forward with Courage and Safety

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OWN! I was really wanting to ask you about all this! Thank you for stopping by!

I don't know about dispute resolution requirements. Should I just research that? The court doesn't know about the mediation. I was doing it on my own.

I am at the same time researching the asset dissipation issue. H and his L are very open about the fact that he can't pay his L, that it's all going to come out of the asset, and they keep trying to get me to pay his legal bills though I am pro se and obviously can't afford legal fees. So it couldn't be more clear that he is dissipating our asset on his legal fees. I have never used equity for mine and stopped having an L at all when Covid hit as there was no money for that.

I asked for relief from asset dissipation in previous motion, asking that H not be allowed to continue to file motions before trial. His lawyer is owed at least 100K and continues to work without getting paid. I believe that his L is actually driving this thing more than H -- he is afraid that if H agrees to a payment plan with me, he won't get paid, so he is trying to force the sale of the house even though this will give H far less equity (lost to closing costs, legal fees, broker commission, taxes). She has ignored all my motions and still signed this one.

I am now looking at filing a complaint against the lawyer and asking for some review of the judge's conduct. Even if she had ruled against me in any of the open motion sequences, she would still have established some basic order in this mess and prevented the latest motion sequence. No one is following any orders we agreed on before, it's just mayhem and we need to go to trial.