"She's not done with you yet, Steve. WW's are savage creatures. In the next few weeks, she's gonna pull out the big guns and you need to be prepared. She's gonna cry, tell you how much she loves you, and how bad she screwed up. Maybe about how OM is a monster and abusive. And you're gonna go right back to old behaviors to try to be the hero and save her. Trust me. I've been there. You need to have it cemented in your head that this is all part of the script and she doesn't mean any of it. I'm afraid if you're not prepared, she's gonna melt you like a popsicle on a hot day and you're right back where you started."
I know you have yourself convinced that you did the right thing, but helping her move was not what you needed to do. Her mess. Her problem. You could've just watched the kids that day or something, but you did not need to physically help her move. You just tattooed PLAN B on your forehead.
I also saw this quote you made in your last post of your previous thread in regard to something sge said while you were moving her crap. "Im a Nurse, I like to fix broken things and heal people, im not an archaeologist I dont want to dig up the past". Not gonna lie. I kind of got sick to my stomach when I read that. To me, that translates to, "It's OK, baby. I'm here to make everything better now. Everything you did and all those guys you screwed in the past doesn't matter" It made you look WEAK...
I'm sorry if I sound like I'm being mean, but you seem like a good guy and I wish you could see what everyone else does. This woman is no good. You made it through the hard part. I'd hate to see y0ou get sucked back in and have to go through it all again. Because you will if you give her another chance...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
