When I'm honest with myself - Nov 21st was a big giant F.U. to OW. At the time I had a suspicion but nothing proven. After I found out for sure (last week) it confirmed my feelings that night.
So revenge is a dish best served with your private parts lol?
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Deep down I knew that was the last time.
So you can predict the future? Who will win the Super bowl?
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Inner circle = trust. emotionally. X is NOT in my inner circle.
Can there be love without trust?
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It's taken a long time and I'm not completely detached - but I have been able to be intimate with him in the past without any expectation. But the second I find out there is OW - I'm out. Never again. I don't sleep with other people's people.
Can you be in love with other people's people?
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Therapist said today "do not empathize with unsafe people. X has proven himself not to be safe."
Your IC is very wise
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Time to explore that and remain true to my beliefs and values.
Which are?
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I left X in my inner circle for too long. The peace that I have is that he violated my trust - so I don't regret it, just need to learn to trust myself more. Which is another process.
All part of the journey
Originally Posted by 97Hope
LH. I appreciate you!!!
Well thank you. It's always nice to be appreciated!
