Ginger - First of all, I’m annoyed. She probably told my daughter she would talk to me about it, which makes me the bad guy.

It is my custody day.

Unfortunately because of my wife’s decision the kids lives have to change. I don’t want to set a precedent where my daughter thinks she is going to be able to have mom watch her and then I don’t get to see her. It kind of [censored], my son will probably have 30 baseball games this spring and 10 soccer games.

Also, when I am busy during my time (which I will be) I don’t want my wife trying to pull this in reverse with me.

My concern is I don’t want to punish the kids because they didn’t have anything to do with this, so I’m a bit perplexed.