If she crosses my boundaries I am going to the lawyer's office and filing the final paper for the D. Point blank and period. She will either learn from this or she wont thats that.
Steve do you really expect us to believe this?
Originally Posted by Steve_
She says she doesnt want to be in a relationship now but asks to rebuild ours slowly so she pretty much says "hang out with me and the kids, lets start over and take it slow, rebuilt the connection and go from there, dont expect to just pick up as if we are married and perfect.
So she the seven time cheater is calling the shots??? WTF??
Originally Posted by Steve_
She said she is afraid that I wont be able to let it go and if she does anything wrong ill explode on her and bring up OM and so on etc, she just needs time to see if we can do this before she agrees to move forward together" that is what she said.
This makes me want to punch myself in the face.
Originally Posted by Steve_
I do understand that she is concerned that I would be seriously pissed off and so on, anyone would.
WTF you should be pissed off!!!!!!!
Originally Posted by Steve_
But I am not holding on to anger, Im not holding on to anything here. I dont expect anything to really just magically get better. If we have not made any progress, if her actions don't match her words on our 10th anniversary coming up feb 19th im going to ask to push the divorce forward.
Just from what you just posted today her actions don't match her words.
Originally Posted by Steve_
I have not told her this but if she cannot start to work on the right path and show me something real in the next month and some change I got no reason to be married to her.
When is her first IC appointment?
RESPECT=LOVE WHEN THERE IS NO RESPECT THERE CAN'T BE LOVE
