Originally Posted by 97Hope
I don't know what came over me, but I responded "Baby, I love you, but I don't like your hat either."

So this is interesting. Does he get your unconditional love?

Originally Posted by 97Hope
Long story longer - I think it might have been not a good idea to engage at all with him via text. I have been turning it over in my mind. What did I hope to gain by texting him back after initial info was sent?

That's the million dollar question. If you are not at number 4 above then you must have a motive.

Originally Posted by 97Hope
#1-4 - I'm not proud of some of these feelings, I'm being honest with you guys. I did evil grin when he flirted thinking "see that OW - you think you've won something, but it will always be me"

I think it's more like "see that OW - you think you've won something, but you got what you deserved"

I think the bottom line is if this isn't going to set you back or spiral it's a sign of true detachment.