Originally Posted by ScottB
I think there is an inevitability of it happening anyways, but of course I don't want to push her that way.

Well if you are waiting it out which I think you will at least try then it would help you to push her into another relationship. She is going to have to at least have one relationship before she thinks about coming back. After all this is what you get a D for is to date other people.
Originally Posted by ScottB
This was a friend that I've had longer than her, that she had forced me to cut out of my life because she believed his wife was spying on her when she was having her affair and then spreading rumors about her (which didn't happen - but if it had happened, the rumors would have been true).

So she chooses your friends for you. Does she set up playdates too lol? See where I am going with this Scotty B?
Originally Posted by ScottB
Anyhow, I just learned that my wife accepted a new job and starts on 1/25. That is going to bring a world of hurt for her and be a massive change in her life.

Ahhh these expectations usually leave people disappointed.
Originally Posted by ScottB
Based on the previous messages, I assume I let her struggle with the work life balance and hit rock bottom as I continue to do my thing?

Boy you sure don't seem like you have any faith in her. You know how many single moms work and get everything done?