I was trying to be "cool" in this new dating world that seems to have changed a lot since I was last in it--- Tinder did NOT exist last time I was in the dating pool. While I was NOT looking to get attached but rather date a LOT, I got attached.
You have to try not to be attached yo a specific outcome early on. Also, definitely do not go bunny boiler on them when they back away. You have to take the attitude that it is their loss.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I had multiple first dates, a couple of second dates... while I enjoyed the dates and getting to know the person it didn't bother me it go further.
This is exactly how dating should be for you right now.
Originally Posted by KitCat
One guy and I hit it off so well that he was asking for a second date before the first one wrapped up. I was totally open to it but I was leaving town in 2 days. There was light contact and he initiated texts but it just didn't go to asking for a second date. So I just let him off the hook by saying I was looking forward to meeting up again but we've seemed to lost momentum and I wished him well. Turned out he reconnected with someone from high school. I totally wished him the best and meant it.
This is what is known as the slow fade. You handled it well though.
Originally Posted by KitCat
So don't think that pilot is the first one to reject me or that I can't handle being rejected... I just was WAY more emotionally invested that I planned on being.
This is the broken part of you.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I've got multiple men all asking me out and for second and third dates. Frankly, I'm exhausted.
Somebody is feeling pretty good about themselves today.
