So I still don’t think you understand what FWBs actually means so let’s just leave at that. You are not a FWB kind of girl.
When you date there will be people that like you and people that don’t. If you can’t understand and handle that you probably shouldn’t be dating.
I'm not... NEVER have been.
I was trying to be "cool" in this new dating world that seems to have changed a lot since I was last in it--- Tinder did NOT exist last time I was in the dating pool. While I was NOT looking to get attached but rather date a LOT, I got attached.
I had multiple first dates, a couple of second dates... while I enjoyed the dates and getting to know the person it didn't bother me it didn't go further. One guy and I hit it off so well that he was asking for a second date before the first one wrapped up. I was totally open to it but I was leaving town in 2 days. There was light contact and he initiated texts but it just didn't go to asking for a second date. So I just let him off the hook by saying I was looking forward to meeting up again but we've seemed to lost momentum and I wished him well. Turned out he reconnected with someone from high school. I totally wished him the best and meant it.
So don't think that pilot is the first one to reject me or that I can't handle being rejected... I just was WAY more emotionally invested that I planned on being.
I see the point of not dating.
I've got multiple men all asking me out and for second and third dates. Frankly, I'm exhausted.
