I get it - its too late. Can't go back and change the beginning but was hopeful I could change the ending. But, you are right. He is not interested in wasting any more time.
You still seem to take less issue with your ex-husband's abuse and pilot's anger issues than we do, and to be strongly opposed to therapy. Given your co-dependence, I worry in terms of future relationships. It's easy to feel like what we're used to is the norm, even if many are telling you such is not the norm or acceptable. I'm glad you're being more open--it's sometimes challenging to know what's going on as you re-write things. We earnestly want you to get to a better place, even if the journey must be your own.
