He was an A Hole to my kid. My kid was in therapy because he just wanted to be liked by his stepdad. Why was my STBXH as arse to my kid? Because he wanted my kid to chose living with his dad so I would know th pain of losing my kid... because his kids were being with held from him. Yup... what a winner...
If this is true it is very sad. Your son has been through a lot living in this toxic situation.
For your son' sake I hope Mr. Briside is right and now that you have exhausted all options of trying to get your STBXH you are now going with the smear campaign.
I just want to move forward in peace. I'm not looking for any smear campaign.
I accept what happened. All I can do is clean up my side of the street and move forward. It has been a heavy toll - this balancing act over the last decade. Seriously though I saw HUGE improvements in the last 3yr between my STBXH and my son... laughing, joking, I no longer had to be a go-between peace maker... it was like FINALLY...
Craziness aside my STBXH has been trying to manage a tail injury with the puppy since beginning Oct. He texted frantic today as the bleeding is so bad and could not get it to stop. I'm meeting him in 30min to hospitalize dog and remove his tail tomorrow. Its strictly business only but my heart is breaking for my puppy.
I just want peace and I hope our D negotiations can be handled in the same format as the puppy... and we can all put this behind us.
