Extreme Divorce (MLC?) Remorse Decades Later

[SteveLW]

Apsara, our sitches timing was very similar, but obviously took different paths. It is always amazing to hear from folks that have been through their sitch, whether it resulted in a saving their marriage or not, come out the other side so much better! As you exhibit in your post above, you grew as an individual and as a potential mate to a new person in the future. That is the whole point of our journeys, is that regardless of the choices of others, we grow, improve and become better and stronger. And we see it over and over again. Though there are few of us that stick around and/or comeback after our sitches, the ones that do always seem to report personal growth and strength.

My hope is that this gives the newcomers that are in the thick of their sitches, can see that and understand that no matter what happens there are better days ahead.