Finding the man I want to be, alone. Pack_19 part3

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She always makes comments about how we should "talk about the kids" in a way that she implies it is my fault as I cannot accept our S and therefore I cannot have the relationship she expects me to have now.

I'd not stand for that. Hang up or walk away immediately.

This is what I want to say. "The children are both doing great and there is no need for us to talk. Anything you want to say to me you can say it per email. Have a great holiday" (after all, she was the one to push for the S agreement I so much dread and where it says from now on we communicate via email)

Cut the fat, just say "Email" and hang up. She'll get it eventually.

I just pray everyday that I can keep the good changes going

A good priest will tell you that prayer alone won't do it, you must practice it everyday.

Your self improvement plan looks good. Are you living in Germany then? That's pretty cool.