Hey FS. I've been slowly making rounds for everyone that I used to talk with on here. I had to get offline during divorce proceedings which took 1 1/2 yrs. D still not final but only some loose ends to tie up.
I read through your sitch and it's VERY similar to mine. My X was involved with someone the whole time and wouldn't be honest about it.
It helped to read your progress. Gave me hope.
I just found out about OW a few days ago but I am already turning a corner emotionally.
It was a relief to read that you are emotionally in a good place! (Selfishly, again, that gives me comfort!)
ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19
8/17-BD IHS: 1/17-2/19 D FILED (ME): 7/19 D FINAL: 10/20 M23 T25 OW CONFIRMED: 01/21
Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.