Originally Posted by unchien
Badgering me about parenting constantly, saying negative and untrue or distorted things behind my back (I have many examples with evidence). Enlisting allies with subtle lies such as therapists, friends, family, etc. She has burned down the village so to speak.

I'm curious--why do you continue to have these conversations? Single parents I know with such adversarial partners.. cut them off. E.g., they don't do pick-ups or drop-offs anymore. I mean, it would seem whatever co-parenting benefits there are to be gained by communicating are lost via outweighed by what you mention.