(((Yail))) It's good to see you so strong!!! I'm so glad to see you continue to be a source of comfort and hope for others like you have been/are to me.


Originally Posted by Mar252



I Choose to place my marriage in the hands of God

I Choose to release fear and anger because they eclipse Love

I Choose Love, Hope and Faith always

I Choose Love because - LOVE NEVER FAILS

I Choose to continue loving you because Love is not a noun it is a Verb, an action word. LOVE is a Choice

I Choose to forgive you

I Choose to forgive myself for past transgressions, present failures and future ones to come

I Choose to let you go

I Choose to respect your choices and decisions

I Choose to live without the walls because Love is daring at all times

I Choose loving boundaries

I Choose to LOVE MYSELF



AMEN!! I chose love and hope and I don't regret it. You are right. All choices you can make. It will be hard sometimes, but I found peace int he acceptance.

I'm here for you, Mar and so are many others. (Yail is one of my favorites here as she was with me in the beginning of mine.)

I'm glad you know God and can turn this over to Him.

I listened to Tim Keller "How to Deal with Dark Times" on YouTube. It helped me enormously! I even took notes!

It's a hard thing to watch the person you have been with for so long ruin themselves. My H of 23 years is decimating his relationships with his sons and grandsons as we speak, but there is peace in choosing to love anyway. My love for him remains, but it is from a distance and with a respect for his journey.

Hang in there! (((mar)))

Last edited by 97Hope; 01/10/21 06:06 PM.

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Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.