It's been ages since I last wrote and I'm sorry for that. Combination of work and nothing really of value to report. I guess there is some value in having nothing of value to report - it means I am no longer caught up in the endless tunnels of my ex. I realise those tunnels were created by me and I stayed lost in them so long is also on me. Yes, he left. But I chose to remain stuck.
I'm happy that you realize that you were the main culprit in being stuck. I could see it from thousands of miles away. Time does eventually heal all wounds.
Originally Posted by FlySolo
Yes, mentally, if not legally, I have moved on. It is possible to do. Time does heal. You will know that you have moved on when you are no longer concerned with what they do or don't do.
Good for you!
Originally Posted by FlySolo
I do however, wish him well and hope that his choices bring him happiness (PS - there is no sub-text here).
This is healthy. I too wish my XW happiness. It was pretty surreal for me to get to this place.
I'm glad you gave us an update. We hadn't heard from you in awhile, and I was wondering what was happening in your sitch. It's tough, but have faith that eventually you will look at this time as a blessing in disguise.
