Ok, thanks for the advice. I feel stupid about asking so basic questions, but anyhow - new territory for me.
I gave her two options that we can discuss on Tue: 1. She takes the guest bed and I pay her the full price of the remaining furniture. That way she can get furniture together that fits the new apartment and make it her own and we skip the moving pain of most things. 2. We make a list of things we want to keep and then discuss. Basically what Mumin said agree on how we value them and try to reach something that is fair.
I feel more detached from this again, but NC will be close to impossible the coming 7 days due to her coming here, talking and moving out. But then it is at least done and I can start focusing on myself
