Good job staying business only. Unfortunately I also think you shouldnt have don this. She could've just rented a truck and done it herself. "I decided if it gets my kids out of there before OM can suck them back in, im dong it." Also here, I hope you realize the next OM might be just moths/weeks away given your W's previous endeavors.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021