Now I'm feeling like garbage for even having conversations with my DIL's (23 and 26 y/o). I wish I would have just listened and validated and stayed out of it.
Sitting here, I realize that I MUST avoid any and all drama that XH creates. When unavoidable, I must detach emotionally so that if it's in my atmosphere - it doesn't affect me.
Scheduled an appt. with my IC. Haven't been in more than a year - haven't needed to - but now it's time so I can manage my emotions around this fresh hell and maintain being the sane parent.
Last edited by 97Hope; 01/09/2107:53 PM.
ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19
8/17-BD IHS: 1/17-2/19 D FILED (ME): 7/19 D FINAL: 10/20 M23 T25 OW CONFIRMED: 01/21
Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.