Help.

[Joe2017]

Dude. Back up. Give her ALL THE SPACE. The more attention you pour on her the more she is going to back away.

It seems like she doesn't have any malice or ill will towards you now. That's very good.

Back off. No wordiness. Be polite. Be respectful. But be neutral. No talk of love or anything like that. Be business like. End emails with "thanks" but never "love" or even "take care".

The only chance you have really, is to ditch her and the idea of being with her. You have to go become the best you that you can be. It's the GAL thing. The LRT. Get in the mindset that you are starting a new chapter of your life and you're making this new chapter the best one yet.

Oh and never ever tell her about what you're doing to see if things are "working". That cancels progress. Treat her like a Co worker from here on out.

You are not in control of her heart, she is.